This morning I was just another runner in a race on a typical Minnesota fall day.
I was just another mom watching her kid play soccer.
In both, I felt a little like the secret weirdo.
I mean I was the only person who didn't blink an eye when I saw that the three stalls in the women's bathroom didn't have doors. I was probably the only one who was breathing a lot easier during that 5K, or noticed that people were cheering in English.
During the game, I have to say I was pretty proud of Megan, who despite her only experience in soccer being bi-lingual coaching from a Swiss German with dredlocks alongside a gang of Chinese boys, seems to be one of the most skilled on her team. If not, then at least the fiercest and most determined. I didn't feel like explaining all that to any of the other moms.
Let them all think this is as normal for me as it is for them. They don't need to know how many times I've used bathrooms in the full presence of strangers, how I'm used to people staring at me like I'm insane when I run. They don't know that we've never seen this many American kids playing soccer in the same place before, or that Megan's not used to her teammates calling her name.
If they only knew.